Pride Heroes #4: Remember this guy?

As Pride Month Ends: A Final Reflection on the LGBTQ+ Sex Philosophy

As Pride Month wraps up, so does my series—at least for now. But don’t worry: I have many more names on the list for next year. I can do this for as long as they can.

Throughout this series, I’ve focused on the philosophical incoherence of the LGBTQ+ sex philosophy. That’s where the real battle lies. We must aim our arguments not merely at external behaviors but at the broken foundation of false beliefs propping up the entire system. Every human being seeks meaning, and when we demonstrate that their current path to meaning is futile and self-defeating, they cannot remain unmoved. Their only options are to repent or to descend further into the darkness of sin and confusion.

I’ve intentionally not made this series about the darker, more disturbing elements often associated with LGBTQ+ activism: public advocacy for pedophilia and incest, man-boy love manifestos, anonymous sex in public parks, the intentional spreading of STDs, or the tragically low life expectancy caused not only by disease but also by the high rates of violent crime and overdose among those pursuing this kind of sex. All of that is easily documented. And yes, some “Pride heroes” have openly said things that would make any decent person recoil. Is it any wonder that a parent would want better for their children?

But I acknowledge there are also those who genuinely just wanted a monogamous homosexual relationship—trying to mimic Christian marriage while leaving out Christ and obedience to God’s moral law. The problem is that once you stop obeying God on one thing, you’ve opened the door to all the rest. The next person will say, “you wanted that, but I want this.”

A perfect example of this irrationality came from the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus, who once thought it would be hilarious to release a song declaring, “We’re coming for your children.” It didn’t go over well. The video was taken down amid backlash, with the defense that it was “just a joke”—though it was later reposted.

Remember this guy?

But what kind of joke is that? What sane parent would find humor in strangers publicly announcing plans to “convert” their children? The chorus claimed the message was about teaching children to be “loving” and “kind.” They mocked Christian parents, saying things like, “You’re just frightened… you think we’ll corrupt your children, we will”

They truly believe Christian opposition stems from irrational “homophobia.” But in reality, they only have non-cognitive arguments—appeals to emotion and insult. They can’t make a rational case for why it’s good for two men (or more) to do what they do to each other’s bodies. They can’t defend the redefinition of love and freedom as whatever one desires sexually just do it. So instead, they accuse, sneer, and condescend. “Everyone is afraid of us.” No, but everyone is afraid of leading an incoherent life and this happens to be one of the main examples in our society.

Their entire worldview collapses under rational scrutiny. They cannot offer an intelligible moral vision. All they have is the tired mantra: “Do what thou wilt is the whole of the law.” And they want to disciple your children into that mantra. “Liberation” by the “angel of light” always starts there.

That’s why any good parent sees this for what it is: not liberty, but slavery to disordered sexual desires. Under this philosophy, your identity is reduced to your favorite sex act. Christian parents, by contrast, know that human beings are made for something greater—to know and love God, in whose image we were made.

Christians are not afraid. We are prepared with sound arguments and a coherent vision of human purpose. When the sex cult yells, “You’re afraid of us!” our response is simple: No, I’m not afraid. I feel compassion. And I want to offer you something better—real freedom in loving and obeying God and a coherent life that is meaningful and lasting.

That’s why we refute the LGBTQ+ sex cult. Not to score points or feel superior. But because this system leads only to heartbreak, brokenness, meaninglessness, guilt, and despair. The gospel of Christ offers grace and forgiveness to all who turn to him—no matter what sin they've been caught up in. That’s true freedom.

But a warning to those who mock and threaten: if you claim—even as a joke—that you're “coming for our children,” don’t be surprised that parents sit up and take notice. A parent’s job is to love their children, protect them from evil, and teach them to see through empty claims about how doing whatever you want with sex is a good way to live.

Parents, the central fact remains: they want to teach your children. They want to make your children their disciples. They are currently doing this very openly in public K-12 schools and state funded universities. Never forget that.